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4 Signs That Reveal That He Is Only After One Thing

Submitted by on October 23, 2012 – 2:48 pmNo Comment | 12,754 views

This article is especially for the ladies out there. Generally, I have no issue with the fact that two people decide they do not want to actually get to know each other and get physical as soon as possible, making their attraction for each other mainly based on physical appearance. But one thing I cannot stand, are people who promise the world, and who simply do not clearly communicate their intentions.

When men and women meet, there are different things, that indicate that he might actually only be interested in one thing, instead of what kind of a person she is. Many men choose not to make a clear standpoint about this, and pretend to be someone they are not, or to be interested while they are not. Yet, his behavior might still provide valuable clues of his intentions.

Let’s have a look.

He is moving too fast

I know, as a man you will need to make some moves, such as initiating the conversation, touching her gently in a neutral way, and get closer and more intimate over time when things work out okay. Some men just can’t make such important moves. But some men make these moves so fast, that it becomes rather uncomfortable.

He does not introduce his friends

If he is together with his friends in a venue, he might introduce them quickly to you, but then trying to lure you away from them again. Also, if the two of you are dating for some time, it might be suspicious if he does not introduce you to any of his friends after a while.

He talks a lot about his place, or asks you about your place

It is good if he shows an interest in what you do, and how and where you live. And so should you. But sometimes, men tend to keep asking about your place a lot, or they hold endless monologues about their own place; these are clear indications that it is there where he wants the evening to end, as fast as possible.

He encourages you to drink (a lot)

Drinking a lot of alcohol is not healthy. But there are some men, who abuse it. They try to make women to drink as much as possible, in order for women to lose control. In stead, if you feel like you have had too much, a real man would not encourage you to keep on drinking, but he would in stead advise you to slow down. Also, if you ask someone to bring you a water, and he brings you a wine in stead, it is a clear sign that he is in fact not that interested in your well being.


It is only fair that two people agree on the path they want to take. It becomes very unfair, if one of the two has a ‘hidden plan’, without openly discussing his (or her) intentions. Luckily, it is very well possible to discover such hidden intentions by the way he behaves, and the topics he focuses on.

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